Offerings
Somatic Gender Crafting
Let's celebrate your gendering differently in the world, which is a brilliant and courageous form of personal trans-formation. Trans-ition occurs when we deviate out of our comfort zone long enough to cause a permanent shift -- internal or external. Queer disobedience may be accompanied by fears and doubts, but also the experience of knowing you are about to embark on being more authentically and magically yourself!
This offering is for you if you...
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want to purposefully craft your gendering compass
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struggle to know what gendered ways feel yummy in your body
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are excited to deep dive into purposeful gender fuckery
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want to be aligned with your gendering values and commitments
Some places we can go:
These explorations might look like:
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Online or in person sessions with somatic practices for you to continue and sink into on your own
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Gendering explorations to connect with your creative and erotic desires
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Online or in person sessions to discover your gendering through playful somatic practices
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Hands on body work that allows you to sink into the discovery of gendering sensations
Mindful Solo Play Coaching
Move beyond autopilot and engage with manifestation through masturbation: you can cultivate playful curiosity and connect with your body in new ways, gain confidence through the creative energy of pleasure, learn how to guide others towards your pleasure, and find a toy that fits your specific body/needs. If you don't have a specific intention already in mind, we begin by mapping out where you are/are not engaging with your eroticism, and how you want to enjoy that more or create change.
This offering is for you if you...
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want to explore creative play and new ways of engaging with your body
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seek to deepen your solo play through breath work or meditative masturbation
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are curious about new types of toys and are seeking a consult
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desire to craft a glorious and uniquely YOU solo sex magick practice
Some places we can go:
These explorations might look like:
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Online or in person sessions with somatic practices for you to continue and sink into on your own
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Online or in person play exploration sessions to discover new ways to engage with yourself
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Hands on body work that strengthens your access to choice and voice by putting you in complete control of the touch.
Mapping Trans* Pleasure
Gendering differently (or opting out) can bring us into alignment with pleasure in our bodies: you can use somatic practices to move beyond normative stories and old gendered patterns by mapping out yummy sensations and re-crafting the ways in which you engage with your genitals and the sexuality of all pieces and parts of your body. Regardless of whether you do or do not, want or don't want to access medicalization: discover where and how to embrace your unique and innate erotic energies so you can more readily navigate towards your compass point of feeling into a full bodied "Fuck yes".
This offering is for you if you...
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have or haven't had gendering surgeries and want to discover what's possible
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want to shed socially gendered ways of engaging with your genitals
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struggle to know what gendering ways feel yummy in your current body
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are excited to deep dive into the wisdom of your body's responses to purposeful listening
Some places we can go:
These explorations might look like:
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Online or in person sessions with somatic practices for you to continue and sink into on your own
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Toy explorations to meet your anatomical, accessibility, and budget needs
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Online or in person play exploration sessions to discover your pleasure through touch
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Hands on body work that allows you to sink into the discovery of pleasure sensations
Trans* Magick & Eroticism
This offering is for you if you...
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are navigating an over or under activated nervous system
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want to be self-affirmed expressing your gender
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want to show up authentically in your eroticism
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struggle to navigate your feelings or reactions
Some places we can go:
- Releasing constructs / labels / names that no longer serve
- Deepening into and embracing the pluralities of your body
- Naming speculative awakenings & calling in new ways of being
These explorations might look like:
This option is a yummy path to design a collage of gendering joy images, craft a song or story that allows you to touch deeply into your desires, or play with improv dance as an acknowledgement of grief and celebration for transitions.
Kink & Leather Exploration
Finding our radical and enthusiastic YES to pleasure and sovereign authenticity. When we remain in touch with the responses of our body (embodied), we have an increased opportunity to respond rather than to react. This allows us to remain focused on our values, what we want, and our commitments in a given moment. Regarding ourselves and showing up fully with others, means knowing what we want in our heart, mind, AND body.
This offering is for you if you...
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struggle to use your voice when feeling activated
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hesitate to know what you want to feel in your body
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want to be confident expressing your desires within sexual negotiations
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want to show up authentically in your gendering
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struggle to navigate your reactions to others' judgements
Some places we can go:
These explorations might look like:
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Online or in person sessions with somatic practices for you to continue and sink into on your own
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Online or in person play and resourcing sessions to deepen confidence in what you want
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Online or in person body based practices to more readily access your voice and sovereignty
Unique Relationship Dynamics
Some places we can go:
- Learn to establish your borders, and communicate your boundaries
- Custom create a dynamic that fits your unique interactions and desires
- Practice embodied dialogue that supports co-reguatlion and maintains individual sovereignty
- Initiate and cultivate a pod as collective support
These explorations might look like:
Spend time getting clear about what you want and what your commits are: from here we can craft a plan to stay aligned in your desires to relate from a place of generous authority over your own well-being. Or perhaps you want to bring in others to craft a supportive weave of loved ones to guide you through a time of grief, accountability, or transition.